LOVE and HATE are two faces of same coin.
Its always pain to say I love U :( to some one. The moment U say some one " I LOVE U ". They start questioning Why , From When , Why me ;) What did U like in me !!.
And if U really love some one , U will not have answer for those questions.
That's why people afraid to utter those 3 words , because we need to answer those questions.
I just thought why we afraid to say I LOVE U . The moment U fallen in love , u start thinking about the loved once. This point where pain starts, first time U stop thinking about your self.
And also its destroys your ego ,so that's why it pains lots. And because the transformation is going to be from the self towards a state of no-self, agony is very deep.
This are emotional part the LOVE game. Now come to practicality of why afraid of saying I LOVE U :)
First reason may be U will get the slap !!! How funny if say I LOVE U , U will get slap. There is also fear of rejection.
Second reason is LOVE is the most redefined and polluted word. People always say whom we have to love , we created boundary our self to Love like caste , age, rich-poor lot more.
So we have to love those whom society accepts. This makes people afraid to say I LOVE U . Should think 100 times before breaking the rules. Should have guts to face the society and also failure if happens.
And last reason which i know the fear of the unknown, the insecurity of the unknown, the unpredictability of the unknown, makes one very much frightened. We start whether loved one will adjust with me , or will they too love me . Like all questions will come.
Now fun part is saying I HATE U :) . I can go to any person and say I HATE U :) . They may say they too hate us ;) .
No one will teach us whom we should hate . Even society also not defined to whom to hate. We are free hate any one !!!
We can hate any one for any silly reasons. HATE is purest word, which not polluted by any definition. So it is easy to say I HATE U :)
So think about , which one U want to say now !!
i just wonder, you are living in which era......
ReplyDeleteno one will slap if you say i love you to a girl....either they will smile or just walk away.....
I think you are watching too many kannada movies...he he he.. no doubts abt it!!! It shows!!!
life is not a movie buddy....
Just go to the girl, you love and just say it.....
i think you have never dared to do that.....
love is a positive energy....
Hate is a negative energy....
Its not so simple to tell to people that u hate them...it creates negativity.....
Be rational!
Sushma thanks for comments :) Some questions to U !!
ReplyDeleteDid i mention any where that "I LOVE U " should be told to only girls ? Girls can also say to boys !!!
Is "girl" is only thing which is lovable ?
And now days in Kannada movies , Heroins are are proposing Hero's !!!
Movie will made by real life experience madam ;)
Ok next time if i see my girl , I will "DARE" to say I LOVE U. But do we need to dare to love ???
I HATE UR COMMENTS :):):) its very easy to hate some thing U know !!!
Nice comments madam :) keep giving comments.