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A small Zen story:
A king went to a Master, and asked: ‘Master how can I become enlightened? Tell me about all the practices you do. What did you do to become enlightened? Please teach me’.
The Master says: ‘Oh! I eat when I eat; I sleep when I sleep. That is all I do’.
The king could not understand.
The Master explained: ‘When I eat I only eat, I do not do anything else when I sleep I only sleep I do not do anything else’.
I read this story some 15 days before , thought of blogging that time only. But thought that I will try myself first and write about it. I put a remainder in my mobile like "I EAT WHEN I EAT , I SLEEP WHEN I SLEEP" !!!. Every day i was remanding about this 6 to 7 times :). When ever I seen this remainder I use to start work one thing at one time and concentrating. Concentrating on one thing at time and giving 100% of my effort on that is really its working great and i am enjoying task also. I am able enjoying the every moment of that work. I was distracting with so many things , but my mobile use to keep me reminding about this "simple thing".
Multitasking , parallel work, this are all good for machines not for human beings. We should involve ourself in the act, which we are doing. This will set your inner soul in motion. It is not the only the work ,even any act you do, just concentrate on that and do. Simple act like brushing your teeth in morning :) . Involve totally yourself while talking with some one, it will make your relationship with that person strong.
Really its a simple method for great success in our life. Just "Do One Thing At One time".
Thats why I Blog When I Blog :)
Link for more zen stories www.101zenstories.com
Why always people say that "Fallen in love" why not we "raise in Love". There is always good or bad about any thing. But it is the way how U look at thing. We can rise in love by learning and keeping in mind below things ..
Expectations
Most of the time Love hurts because we expect Love or something in return for loving someone , don't do that. There is great happiness in giving love.Love is not business to get something return.
Keep in mind that not every body will love in the same way you love them , they may have the different way of expressing that . No need to express your love always to u loved once.
Best one For Love
Another reason why people get hurt is that , they think that person whom they love is best in the word and they can't get one more person like this again. They feel that its greatest disaster in there life if they loose them. Don't worry there are lot people whom U can give love.
Feel great that U had fallen sorry rise up in love :) and had great experience which lot of people doesn't had. It sweet and pain feeling :)
Learning from Love
Learn from your loved once. I learned lot for thing from my love and also changed or improved lot as person. U know one thing when U are in love U listening to your heart completely nothing else. This make U realize what is the power if U keep your heart in some thing or some one..
Feel proud that U are the person had feeling of love and also got love from some one. Always rise from love.
Keep moving in life... Don't keep waiting for some one , don't know what all you miss while you are waiting for someone !!!
Happy loving :)
There is one good quote about the self love its like this " Love yourself, for if you don't, how can you expect anybody else to love you?”.
Think for a moment , how many times in a day you thinks about your self , about your emotions , about your body ? or how frequently you think about yourself ?
Do U loving yourself ?.
What is self love ?
Accepting yourself as it is. Thinking that " We are the powerful beings capable of creating joy and success or pain and suffering in our lives". And self love is not the selfishness. Self love will lead to the positive think and makes great human being.
People who doesn't love them self will always cry for others to love , and also thinks that nobody is there to love them. Usually they feel alone.
Some advantages of the self love are
We can be ourself, no need to impress any one.
And U can love and take care of U any time and any where. No expectations from any body .. This is the major advantage, since lot time we will get hurt due to which our expectation are not met by some one :(
As the time passes it will build as self confidence and self respect will be build.
Remember we are going to spend most of the time with ourself not with some one. Thats why spend time for your self , all the great battles in life has to faced by yourself alone.
Spend some time daily thinking about how to improve urself , how to love urself , how take care your self , And what makes happy very much..
Below are some of the good quotes on the self-love importance
Above all, be true to yourself, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.
You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
And finally I LOVE RAGHU :) :) :) ...
