A memorable year 2012 !!

Writing blog after many years ! And year 2012 will be important year in my life. With 12 points , I am making journal for the year 2012.

Year of first time experiences : Promoted as papa , traveled first time in flight .

Year of Traveling : Covered India from Kanyakumari to Kashmir .

Year of Reading and Writing : This is year where I read and wrote more than any year. Wrote almost 150+ pages on all the topics which ever comes in to my mind.

Year of Decision making : This is year where decision is made with in no time. Made a decision to go life risking Amarantha yaatra with in 5 min. Decided changing the job with in 1 day !! . Its all spontaneous decision making .

Year of Driving : Almost drove 15K this year . Alto rocks and Punto is taking the charge !!

Year of Learning : This is year where I learn a beautiful lessons my dear ones … Where I learned how to win on my weakness … If you ready to learn , every body can be teacher ..

Year of worst experiences : This is year where I experienced lot of worst experiences which I never expected but those experiences made me more stronger inside and more gentle out side ...

Year of Best week ends : This is year where I spend most of my week ends wort fully in my farm.. Week end farmer !!

Year of new things : Second innings in Novell , Second car , New hobby “Farming “ !!

And finally thanks to all my dear ones who made my are memorable. And Wishing is you all Happy new year …

Life Skills.

Life Skill is the " ability derived from his/her knowledge, practice, attitude which helps to do something well " .

"Life Skills" are those which are required to lead life beautifully and happily. Problem seems to be ,there is no school to teach us those precious life saving skills. The only place we can learn is in our own life !!!

Though its interesting to note some of the things I found interesting while in MY school


Know your self :
This solves lot our problem. We make mistakes by comparing our life with others and feel bad. We don't have any idea how they struggled to reach that position. Don't take yourself so seriously as to forget who we are !!.

Smile and Laugh more:
Please also Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.
keep always "32 bit smile" on your face :) . That is the curve which makes all other curves straight . Try to make at least three people smile each day.

Love :
Be ego-less with Loved ones , Dear ones , Friends. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Forgive everyone for Everything.

Live in Present :
Live in present. Don't carry the negative baggage of past or fear of future. Live Today !!. To Taste the sweetness of the life , U have to live in present. Just move on.

Knowledge is power :
Read and travel as much as possible . Stay foolish to learn more.


Please share your life skill you learnt in "Your School" :).

Wish U All Happy Life :) :)

Devaru

After long time i am blogging by GOD grace !!

Last week I finished reading the Kannada book "Devaru" by A.N.Murthy Rao , which has been translated into English as “The God” .
His analysis of existence of the god with humor makes interesting to read.He starts telling to reader that he not proud of proving the non-existence of the god. He too need a GOD who will take care of us, Who listens to our problem and solves them.

In the beginning of the book author explains how and what made to us to think about the god.Why only human beings have the concept of God why not any other living beings ? Author also analyzes the beliefs around the world about the creation of us and this world . And explains how there is no logic in what we believing. At some point of time we will get be surprised that how we were believing all those stories till now with out thinking or analyzing .

In later section of the book author explains his view on the world existence and system. Why are we here ?
Good thing about this book is sincerity and honesty in every page. Author mentions all the books, instance and reference he used to write that content of that page.

Some good points from this book.

There will not be any arguments of existences of an object if it is there. If there is arguments then there will be some dought in believing that.

If we are all believing that God is created all of us , then who did created that GOD ? Then why we have all the concepts of "Bing Bang theory" , Darwin's " Theory of Evolution", origin of life from single cell amoeba. We are all know thing then also we are blindly believing that we are all created by some one.
Nature took billion of years make homosapeins , not some one came and did magic of creating humans .

People say that what ever we do its always motivated or driven by god only . We cant do even single task with out his wish. If that is the case what ever we do bad action is all because of the god only then !! .

Most of the time people will believing in the god because of the fear.Afraid of some bad will happen if they wont believe in .

In this book author intentions is to discourage human tendency of depending on external source than self efforts.

Finally we are in the system which is in continuous progress and we are the part of this system.We are all responsible for the sate of the system and its our responsible to make this system beautiful .

As Albert Einstien says

I cannot conceive of a personal God who would directly influence the actions of individuals, or would directly sit in judgment on creatures of his own creation. My religiosity consists in a humble admiration of the infinitely superior spirit that reveals itself in the little that we, with our weak and transitory understanding, can comprehend of reality. Morality is of the highest importance -- but for us, not for God.

Happy week end :) :)

I Blog When I Blog :)

A small Zen story:
A king went to a Master, and asked: ‘Master how can I become enlightened? Tell me about all the practices you do. What did you do to become enlightened? Please teach me’.
The Master says: ‘Oh! I eat when I eat; I sleep when I sleep. That is all I do’.
The king could not understand.
The Master explained: ‘When I eat I only eat, I do not do anything else when I sleep I only sleep I do not do anything else’.

I read this story some 15 days before , thought of blogging that time only. But thought that I will try myself first and write about it. I put a remainder in my mobile like "I EAT WHEN I EAT , I SLEEP WHEN I SLEEP" !!!. Every day i was remanding about this 6 to 7 times :). When ever I seen this remainder I use to start work one thing at one time and concentrating. Concentrating on one thing at time and giving 100% of my effort on that is really its working great and i am enjoying task also. I am able enjoying the every moment of that work. I was distracting with so many things , but my mobile use to keep me reminding about this "simple thing".

Multitasking , parallel work, this are all good for machines not for human beings. We should involve ourself in the act, which we are doing. This will set your inner soul in motion. It is not the only the work ,even any act you do, just concentrate on that and do. Simple act like brushing your teeth in morning :) . Involve totally yourself while talking with some one, it will make your relationship with that person strong.

Really its a simple method for great success in our life. Just "Do One Thing At One time".

Thats why I Blog When I Blog :)

Link for more zen stories www.101zenstories.com

Don't fall in love , Raise in love !!

Why always people say that "Fallen in love" why not we "raise in Love". There is always good or bad about any thing. But it is the way how U look at thing. We can rise in love by learning and keeping in mind below things ..

Expectations

Most of the time Love hurts because we expect Love or something in return for loving someone , don't do that. There is great happiness in giving love.Love is not business to get something return.
Keep in mind that not every body will love in the same way you love them , they may have the different way of expressing that . No need to express your love always to u loved once.

Best one For Love

Another reason why people get hurt is that , they think that person whom they love is best in the word and they can't get one more person like this again. They feel that its greatest disaster in there life if they loose them. Don't worry there are lot people whom U can give love.
Feel great that U had fallen sorry rise up in love :) and had great experience which lot of people doesn't had. It sweet and pain feeling :)

Learning from Love

Learn from your loved once. I learned lot for thing from my love and also changed or improved lot as person. U know one thing when U are in love U listening to your heart completely nothing else. This make U realize what is the power if U keep your heart in some thing or some one..
Feel proud that U are the person had feeling of love and also got love from some one. Always rise from love.

Keep moving in life... Don't keep waiting for some one , don't know what all you miss while you are waiting for someone !!!

Happy loving :)

I Love U Raghu :)

There is one good quote about the self love its like this " Love yourself, for if you don't, how can you expect anybody else to love you?”.
Think for a moment , how many times in a day you thinks about your self , about your emotions , about your body ? or how frequently you think about yourself ?
Do U loving yourself ?.

What is self love ?

Accepting yourself as it is. Thinking that " We are the powerful beings capable of creating joy and success or pain and suffering in our lives". And self love is not the selfishness. Self love will lead to the positive think and makes great human being.
People who doesn't love them self will always cry for others to love , and also thinks that nobody is there to love them. Usually they feel alone.

Some advantages of the self love are

We can be ourself, no need to impress any one.
And U can love and take care of U any time and any where. No expectations from any body .. This is the major advantage, since lot time we will get hurt due to which our expectation are not met by some one :(
As the time passes it will build as self confidence and self respect will be build.

Remember we are going to spend most of the time with ourself not with some one. Thats why spend time for your self , all the great battles in life has to faced by yourself alone.
Spend some time daily thinking about how to improve urself , how to love urself , how take care your self , And what makes happy very much..

Below are some of the good quotes on the self-love importance

Above all, be true to yourself, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.
You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.
To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.

And finally I LOVE RAGHU :) :) :) ...

I LOVE U :( ... I HATE U :) ...

LOVE and HATE are two faces of same coin.

Its always pain to say I love U :( to some one. The moment U say some one " I LOVE U ". They start questioning Why , From When , Why me ;) What did U like in me !!.
And if U really love some one , U will not have answer for those questions.
That's why people afraid to utter those 3 words , because we need to answer those questions.
I just thought why we afraid to say I LOVE U . The moment U fallen in love , u start thinking about the loved once. This point where pain starts, first time U stop thinking about your self.
And also its destroys your ego ,so that's why it pains lots. And because the transformation is going to be from the self towards a state of no-self, agony is very deep.
This are emotional part the LOVE game. Now come to practicality of why afraid of saying I LOVE U :)

First reason may be U will get the slap !!! How funny if say I LOVE U , U will get slap. There is also fear of rejection.
Second reason is LOVE is the most redefined and polluted word. People always say whom we have to love , we created boundary our self to Love like caste , age, rich-poor lot more.
So we have to love those whom society accepts. This makes people afraid to say I LOVE U . Should think 100 times before breaking the rules. Should have guts to face the society and also failure if happens.
And last reason which i know the fear of the unknown, the insecurity of the unknown, the unpredictability of the unknown, makes one very much frightened. We start whether loved one will adjust with me , or will they too love me . Like all questions will come.


Now fun part is saying I HATE U :) . I can go to any person and say I HATE U :) . They may say they too hate us ;) .
No one will teach us whom we should hate . Even society also not defined to whom to hate. We are free hate any one !!!
We can hate any one for any silly reasons. HATE is purest word, which not polluted by any definition. So it is easy to say I HATE U :)


So think about , which one U want to say now !!